In giving advice seek to help, not to please, your friend. ~ Solon ~
When you give advice and feedback, ensure that you are being honest and upfront. It's OK to tread lightly so you don't hurt esteem, however, watch out. When you soften your feedback or advice the seriousness could get lost. Your help as a leader should never be harmful but it is sometimes painful. However, you can be tough and caring at the same time. Just know that your help is caring and remember, the other person's perception of caring is all in the delivery and the support.
1. Close your eyes
2. Breathe
3. Empty your mind
4. As thoughts come in, acknowledge and whisk them away
5. Focus on your breathing
6. Think about the affirmation:
I give caring, honest and helpful feedback.
